Basic Dating Tips for Men

Basic Dating Tips for Men

If you're a guy and you're looking for dating tips, you can rest assured that this is plenty of information out there for you to learn and absorb. In fact recent years have seen an explosion in dating tips and advice for men, with a strong focus on advice on what really works from men who have the skills and experience to back it up. A key example of this, and of the greater visibility of dating advice for men, was the publication of the novel 'The Game' by Neil Strauss in 2005, which explored and exposed the new and hitherto unknown science of being a 'pick-up artist'. If this is all new to you, read on for three of the biggest revelations for men from the world of the pick-up artist.

#1 Everything you've been told about women is wrong. How many times, in relation to women, have you heard the advice 'just be yourself'? Let me ask you this: did it work? Did 'just being yourself' get you the girls that you wanted in high school? Is 'just being yourself' getting you the success with women that you want right now?

Unless you're one of the very lucky and very few men who is naturally great with women, I think you would have to agree that no, being yourself does not get you what you want. So turn away from the folklore of people who don't know what they're talking about, or who want you to act in a certain way for their benefit rather than for yours, and turn on to the science and the experience of men who are getting now what you want for yourself.

#2 Nice guys don't get 'lucky'. Pick-up is fundamentally rooted in the science of human behaviour, and the fact is that women find 'dangerous', unpredictable, alpha men very attractive. Women don't hate nice guys, they like them. Who wouldn't? But that doesn't mean they want to sleep with them, especially outside of a committed relationship. Being successful at this game means adopting some of the practices and habits of the alpha male.

#3 In order to get good, you must practice, practice, practice. Men who are not naturally good with women are not going to get  magically better at it overnight. Unfortunately, the only way to improve is to crash through the barriers of embarrassment and fear of ridicule, and practice, by approaching women again and again to learn what works. While there are plenty of dating tips to help work out how to do this, nothing will substitute for this practice. This confirms the truth of the ancient Chinese proverb which reads: 'I hear...and I forget. I see...and I remember. I do...and I understand.''

If this dating tips article has piqued your curiosity, some simple internet searches will quickly reveal a lot more information for you to read and then employ. Good luck and welcome to a new world of dating success!